Hi there,
Iīm engaged to an American and weīre having a tough time making heads or tails of all the information thatīs being thrown at us from websites and from other people.

A lot of people are saying that itīs going to be close to impossible for us to obtain a way for him to be here with me for good...or that itīs going to take forever and cost us a fortune.

We donīt know what steps to take, and we have no idea what to do. Can anyone just break it down in plain and simple english for us about the best route to take?

Thanks!